The notion of seeking and asking for forgiveness is a very complex one. Particularly when there are nuances you want to observe with regard to the act of seeking forgiveness. However, I believe that seeking forgiveness is important, despite many of us seldom understanding how it should be sought. It is not an internal forgiveness since I believe that human beings are very good at explaining things to themselves and giving excuses to themselves for their behavior.
I think that forgiveness has to be sought from others, for the things we did and perhaps more importantly, for the things we did not do. On the subject of forgiveness and the various manners it can be sought in, I was inspired to write a ghazal that I present below. You might note that the words “Mujhe Maaf karna” i.e. forgive me hold several different meanings in each verse and I hope this poor effort amuses you in some measure.
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بارگاہِ رب و مدہوش سلام؟ مجھے معاف کرنا
یا ملکِ عذاب و انعام، مجھے معاف کرنا
In god’s temples
You present drunken salutes? Shame!
Oh lord of gifts and punishments
Forgive me
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کچھ غلطیاں تو ہو جائیں گی ہم سے اب
یہ رت و ماہِ تمام ، مجھے معاف کرنا
The moon and the atmosphere
May lead me to commit
A few mistakes
Please forgive me if I do
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رقیبِ بد زبان سے ہم یہی کہتے ہیں
جاری رکھیں اپنا کلام، مجھے معاف کرنا
To the ill voiced rival I say
Please continue
What you have to say
Forgive the interruption
j
نہ کہ سکا کسی کو کافر با طرزِ شیخ
گر ایں اسلام؟ ترک اسلام، مجھے معاف کرنا
I could not follow
The hate I was taught
If that’s the right path I break from it
Forgive me
j
کیوں سنیں کوئی بات واعظ کی کے وہ
کج ادا و بد کلام، مجھے معاف کرنا
Why should I listen
To the narrow minded preacher
With poor manners
I’m better off not listening
j
کن بزرگوں سے ناتا ملاتے ہو استاد؟
رومی و حافظ و خیام؟ مجھے معاف کرنا
Who do you dare
relate to?
Rumi, Hafiz and Khayam?
Hah! Please forgive me!